Tribe.net. Local Connections Lady Maria http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#ba0dfb50-b665-4bc9-ac11-9bb7621de25b 2008-09-27T00:34:20Z 2008-09-27T00:34:20Z

I work in the education system, and I have to be VERY careful about how I dress. NO facial piercings (wah). I've got several tattoos, so I have to wear pants or long skirts, and shirts with collars year round (nice in the ninety degree heat). I do have some lacy tops and red rose earrings that I wear a lot, and I often wear Mary Janes with striped socks. I also like to have my nails done in darker tones, like plum or wine, and I tote a CRAZY purse (can't have the labret, but they aren't going to tell me what purse to use!) I also like to throw a teeny weeny little nearly invisible washable stripe of some abnormal color in my hair on the days that the boss is gone, for my own shits and giggles!

Lady Maria 2008-09-27T00:34:20Z BU* http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#2618be63-35f3-47d8-85ca-b54ce2e3f018 2008-08-08T02:53:26Z 2008-08-08T02:53:26Z

Lace and victorian inspired clothes are suitable everywhere Victorian inspired red rose jewelry pearls crimson red, black, violet are all colors that are suitable when is doubt dress UP

BU* 2008-08-08T02:53:26Z Anathema http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#d0502f4a-3a38-453f-8550-14bb3f8b64d5 2008-07-28T03:43:12Z 2008-07-28T03:43:12Z

Yeah, I guess when I was a lot younger I wore the same clothes to work and clubs, but now I pretty much have three sets of clothing . . . work-safe, fetish club, and non-fetish goth. I probably wear more black and have more piercings and tattoos than my co-workers, but I have enough time in my "real" life to dress fancy. Workwear is like a school uniform--you can hitch up the skirt a bit, or wear your blouse tight over a pushup bra, but really . . . it's still a uniform.

Anathema 2008-07-28T03:43:12Z James http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#2a1db7dc-de55-4a32-bad8-6b92739a364a 2008-07-24T15:04:14Z 2008-07-24T15:04:14Z

I'm a lawyer (real property litigation) in San Francisco but I don't dress goth (unless I wear a gothy T into work when I ride my bike). I easily could -- my boss got me a Siouxsie VIP pass a few years ago after all -- but it's just a hassle, although you can wear velvet year round here. I don't even wear a suit unless I go to court. However, given that this is S.F., I'm going to try to schedule a hearing for Halloween and go in in my 19th century Dickens Fair upper crust attire - frock coat, top hat, cravat, etc. :-> Good luck.

James 2008-07-24T15:04:14Z )'(Ms. Meow)'( http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#c8f2c530-158e-43dc-91df-b38fd4e9b1e9 2008-07-24T02:53:10Z 2008-07-24T02:53:10Z

That website looks awesome, thanks! And believe me... when I get off of work, the septum piercing is the first thing that comes out, lol! It gets stuffy inside of my tiny nostrils!

)'(Ms. Meow)'( 2008-07-24T02:53:10Z Kassandra http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#198c9657-aec1-461e-b361-e6480fd4b281 2008-07-23T12:53:57Z 2008-07-23T12:53:57Z

This website has lots of good reading: http://www.waningmoon.com/corpgoth/ You don't say what is your favorite style, but if a simple nose piercing bothers them so much, I would recommend dressing formal (in the Victorian style maybe?). Long flowing skirts, blouses, velvet jackets... A nice ribbon choker, a cameo or a locket would not be out of place in an office. Boots can be OK too, if you wear them under a long skirt. You can always return to your style when going out at night or on weekends.

Kassandra 2008-07-23T12:53:57Z )'(Ms. Meow)'( http://gothaesthetic.tribe.net/thread/41bf91c9-556b-4428-b764-866113f6aae8#375811b5-8f07-46dc-ab02-265c629b6ac0 2008-07-23T06:41:28Z 2008-07-23T06:41:28Z

I recently graduated from the University and got a 'real' job. The kind that takes place in the office, and mostly entails sitting in front of a computer for 8 hours a day. I already miss school, where I never felt at all estranged when I dressed how I wanted, and I felt comfortable expressing myself, and treating the classroom as a runway. In the office the dress code is 'business casual,' but I am trying to find ways to bring the goth aesthetic into my work wardrobe, without over doing it. I try to accessorize, but a lot of my jewelry seems too over the top. I even have to tuck my septum ring up into my nose while I'm working and it feels like I'm hiding the real me for this job. Any suggestions on how I can incorporate my goth goodies into my every day work wardrobe so that I don't feel like I'm losing myself? All suggestions welcome!

)'(Ms. Meow)'( 2008-07-23T06:41:28Z