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Hi!
I am having a Halloween/Gothic wedding this year. We are getting married in Vegas and coming back home later for the reception. The reception will not be very formal and everyone will be dressed in some sort of gothic style costume.
I can't decide on a dress. The two styles I really like are listed below. The pics are just to show the skirt. I am getting my corset top from another place.
#1 black one
www.azacdesign.com/items/jr...etail.htm
I really like #1 because it's short in the front and long in the back. It is kind of casual. I think it will be comfy enough to get around/dance in during the reception.
#2
www.kambriel.com/scylla.html
I really like #2 because it is just so damn beautiful. I am wondering if it will restrict my movement too much.
Which do you think would be the most appropriate? Does anyone know of any more dresses in similar styles?
Any opinions and suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Kristin
I am having a Halloween/Gothic wedding this year. We are getting married in Vegas and coming back home later for the reception. The reception will not be very formal and everyone will be dressed in some sort of gothic style costume.
I can't decide on a dress. The two styles I really like are listed below. The pics are just to show the skirt. I am getting my corset top from another place.
#1 black one
www.azacdesign.com/items/jr...etail.htm
I really like #1 because it's short in the front and long in the back. It is kind of casual. I think it will be comfy enough to get around/dance in during the reception.
#2
www.kambriel.com/scylla.html
I really like #2 because it is just so damn beautiful. I am wondering if it will restrict my movement too much.
Which do you think would be the most appropriate? Does anyone know of any more dresses in similar styles?
Any opinions and suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Kristin
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 10:03 AMHi, and congrats on your wedding!
OK, my 2 cents:
Skirt #1: Pros --> it's hot and sexy, perfect for a wedding in Vegas; you can recycle it and use it often for going clubbing or dancing; obviously, will be very comfy to wear.
Cons--> maybe it's too casual for an special day such as a wedding day.
Skirt#2: Pros--> It's overly dramatic and oh-so-Victorian!; it's magnificent in design and fabrics.
Cons--> it's not so recyclable as the other one.
Been said that, I would go with number 2. But that's just me.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 11:10 AMHere's what I think:
Skirt 1: I agree with the previous comment - it's super sexy and very easy to re-use.
Skirt 2: Gorgeous and definitely even MORE Halloweeny than the first one. I wouldn't think it would hamper your movement too much.
My two cents: it really depends on what style you are going for. Do you feel drawn to a more elegant style, or is the wedding going to be more fun and wild? The first dress is definitely more fun and modern, whereas the second is very romantic and elegant. Consider what the groom is wearing, what your surroundings will be, and who will be there. Which one will fit those things best, and most importantly, what do YOU want? :)
Congratulations and best of luck with not totally stressing out with planning!
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 1:14 PMI like the idea of a long skirt with a bustle. It makes your waist look more cinched in the corset. Perhaps something like what they make at arcadiumclothing.com/ ... What kind of corset are you wearing? Of course acessories are very important as well. Ohhh.... of subject, but wouldn't it be hot to find something like the latex dress that Monica Bellucci wore in the second Matrix... Yeah, a wedding really depends on your personal tastes, the situation, and what kind of relationship you have. Good Luck!
~Kadesh
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 1:14 PMI like the idea of a long skirt with a bustle. It makes your waist look more cinched in the corset. Perhaps something like what they make at arcadiumclothing.com/ ... What kind of corset are you wearing? Of course acessories are very important as well. Ohhh.... off subject, but wouldn't it be hot to find something like the latex dress that Monica Bellucci wore in the second Matrix... Yeah, a wedding really depends on your personal tastes, the situation, and what kind of relationship you have. Good Luck!
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 3:03 PMThat site is awesome! I like the bustle skirt on there. I am thinking of wearing a cute little mini top hat like this www.vivcore.com/mm5/merchant.mvc
As for the corset.....i am looking for an overbust with straps and I want one that covers my hip (I am pretty hippy) like this
www.darkgarden.com/corsets_...etail.asp
or this
altered-tyme.com/bella%20corset.htm
altered-tyme.com/lolita%20corset.htm
these are pics of me so you get an idea of my body type
people.tribe.net/d6e851cc-...cbb5cc7b98
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 3:09 PMI love the idea of a shoulder strap corset with a great skirt!
Do you sew at all??? Or know someone who does?
Skirts are not hard to make. You could find some amazing material or even a few kinds and just make multiple, long, layers and bustle them up in various places with antique pins or velvet ribbons ... or just about anything.
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Wed, May 2, 2007 - 7:41 AMI can't sew a button on straight :o( I am hoping to start taking a sewing class soon.
I haven't even thought of getting someone I know to make it. I may do that because I have been disappointed many times from online purchases.
So much to think about. It is kinda overwhelming. Thanks for all of your great advice.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Wed, May 2, 2007 - 10:25 AMIf you were in the bay area... I would help... but you're not. =(
Sewing skirts isn't that hard, especially an unstructured one like you are looking at. It might be worth it to see who you know that can sew or check a local tailoring shop.
It could be fun to make a skirt with various layers that aren't attached to each other... that way you could use it later with the train off or on, ruffles off or on, crenalin off or on... or what ever parts you have.
It might seem overwhelming but soon something will pop into your head and you'll go AHH and know which direction to go in.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 5:24 PMThe Bella corset is hot! I'm thinking though, before you buy an overbust corset it is a good idea to try it on. There are things that can go wrong... like the area around you armpits bulging a little around were the top edge meets the strap, or it may not flatter your chest. I've actually stopped buying anthing like that online. An alternative though would be to get an underbust (which is versatile), and wear a neat top under it... Perhaps something lacey with whatever kind of straps you like. Of course these are just suggestions. : )
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 5:26 PMOh and well I'm thinking of it... Have you check out fairygothmother.com ? They do custom corsets.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Wed, May 2, 2007 - 7:50 AMOMFG Look at how beautiful this one is. I want it so bad but it is a little out of my price range. If I had more time to save up and get it I totally would.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Wed, May 2, 2007 - 8:15 AMNot to mention FGM is in the UK and the pound against the dollar is astronomical if you happen to be from the US. Best of luck finding something! I found mine relatively cheap through a live journal corset sales community. You might try looking around online for deals, but it is a bit riskier if you don't know how trustworthy the company is.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Wed, May 2, 2007 - 7:35 AMThat is a great idea. It might be the best way for me to go. I hate that weird armpit bulge that can hang out.
Thanks so much for everyone's great ideas....I love tribe!
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 1:25 PMThis site has some interesting options as well:
www.corinthias.net/Women's.html
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 2:08 PMThe tiny, tiny, teeny weeny part of me, that still holds on to some traditions, says that no 2 is more like a "normal" weddingdress (not so revealing), but my heart beats for no1, which actually is the coolest wedding dress I've ever seen. Since I'm really not very traditional, I'd go for no 1.
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Re: Need help deciding on gothic wedding dress
Wed, May 2, 2007 - 11:06 AMI think the formality of a wedding, even a wild Vegas one, calls for a full skirt like #2. But I think you should definitely wear skirt #1 to your more informal reception! Besides, that's a perfect excuse to have them both! And skirts ARE easy to make and you can save a considerable amount of money by having them made locally and working with someone in the scene who will understand what you are going for will be easier to deal with than a more traditional bridal boutique!