Hmm....

Hot Topic
Alchemy Gothic (www.alchemygothic.com)
I Mosh (www.imosh.com)-sells dog collars, spiked braclets and heavy metal related stuff
Manic Panic (www.manicpanic.com)-sells hair care products and dyes
Ebay (look up "goth")
Evil Needles (www.evilneedles.com)-sells clothes, mostly tops, made out of band shirts
Black Phoenix Alchemy Labs (www.blackphoenixalchemylabs.com)-perfumes
After Dark Jewlery (www.afterdarkjewlery.com)-self explanitory.

If you want to find more, there's listings at Chateau Bizzare (www.chateaubizzare.com) and The Black Page Directory (www.blackpagedirectory.com). And a lot of rock bands also have merch sections on their sites as well, so check out your favorite bands sites as well.

-Ariadne

www.batgearbeyond.com is a great shopping resource hub.

If you're a bit more specific about what kids of things you're looking for as well as style (ie cyber, fetish, romanti-goth, etc) we likely could provide better recommendations.

I find lots of fab thing on ebay, goth auctions and gothic auctions too.

www.flamingangels.net/
www.houseofvamp.com
www.galleryserpentine.com.au
www.crimsonempress.com/
www.azacdesigns.com/

ebay ebay ebay! seriously 90% of my club wardrobe has come from ebay. type in specific brand names, such as lip service, heavy red, trip, fluvog etc...you can get great stuff at less than retail.

You hve hit upon a problem I have. I don't WANT what others are wearing.. if you know what I mean. Hot Topic clothes to me are waaay overdone, I see 12 yr olds wearing them to look "cool". Since I'm 52, aI dont WANNA look like them, or anybody else. So, I make my own stuff. At this point, it isn't street clothes, but it's costumes I wear when I perform. I like to think that whatever I wear will be "dark" , and I don't mean colorwise.:) Although sometimes it is.
I want to be able to wear a pretty Donna Reed style happy dress and still scare the bejezus out of folks, merely by walking down the street. And that happens now, much to my delight.
xxxlucy

Ebay is a great place, but sites i order from or would love to when i have money are these:

www.arsenicfashions.com (Sells almost anything)
www.hottopic.com (same as above)
www.eyescreamjewelry.com (Beautiful, gorgeous jewelry)
www.dragonweave.com (Jewelry)
www.steppingstonedesign.com/clie....html
(awesome corsets and bras)
www.renaissancefashions.com (Same as above)
www.sblades.com (Chainmail everything!! Love this site)
www.dracinabox.com/home.htm (Beautiful clothes)
www.x-tra.de/english/index-2.html (Saw this company in Gothic Beauty Mag. Planning to order from there soon. Lots of stuff, good stuff)

This is just a few. Good luck!!